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On the last Friday in September, Mom retired. And we threw her a SURPRISE PARTY in my back yard!
This post is going to have tons of pictures, but it’s hard to know where to start breaking things down. The idea first began because we were trying to surprise Mom by having her twin sister & her husband come down from Wisconsin (those of you already know them after some of the projects they’ve helped me with a few years ago when they visited). We wanted to have a nice dinner by renting out a private room at a restaurant and decorating it, but our party was so small that it was hard to find a suitable place (most had room for a far larger group, so we thought the room would seem sparse with just us). That, and the minimum cost was really high (around $500 was the average, plus we wanted to get a cake and decor). So, after searching for a few days and not finding what we were hoping for, I offered up my house instead.
“Why don’t we set up an outdoor table, with hanging lights and lots of greenery? Really Pinterest the crap out of it.”
(direct quote 🤣)
So, that’s what we did! My sister and her fiancé came over the prior weekend to help get everything cleaned up while I finalized a bunch of extra landscaping around the deck. And let me tell you: my sister was a CHAMP. She went crazy on weeding, planting flowers, and using all my new tools from STIHL to work some real magic. She also made the acrylic sign and had a coworker make the beautiful champagne cake!
(P.S. fresh greenery hides flaws if you accidentally coughcoughEmcough stick your thumb in the icing)
Meanwhile, I worked on lots and lots of finishing touches that turned the new deck into more of a finished space. I finished painting the outdoor chairs, painted the shed, and created a small pathway from the deck stairs over to the fire pit.
I also added the new light pole planters and strung up lights (that tutorial including plans and video should come later this week). I was pretty impressed with how big of a difference the path addition in particular made; it created instant flow to join the two areas together.
Planning a surprise party like this took some scheming because Mom was counting down the days to her retirement and wanted us all to go out for dinner together. She was trying to make reservations and kept telling my aunt how she was going to book tickets to fly up to Wisconsin. It was funny — but also stressful — since she was frustrated at the number of conflicts we kept coming up with (she traveled a lot for work, so she was plenty familiar of when to book her flight, and she was worried costs were going up).
But finally, the day arrived and set up a food area inside with two long tables outdoors. The original plan was to put the tables in the grassy area between the deck and the tree (so the lights above would drape over the table), but the week prior had been really rainy and soggy, so we scrapped it in favor of an easier setup on the deck.
Green and White Outdoor Dinner Party
My aunt and uncle arrived about an hour early (they drove down from Wisconsin!) and the four of us (me/K, my sister/her fiancé) coordinated balloons, food, flower arrangements, a few DIYs (Em and a friend did the design on the sign — I spray painted a bunch of candle holders from Goodwill and painted chargers with chalkboard paint — the napkin holders were made with washi tape, ribbon, and greenery). Then, we waited for Mom and Dad to arrive. This whole time, Mom thought she was coming over to have some champagne and dinner with K and I as a mini-celebration since all of our retirement party plans kept having conflicts (hehe).
Video: Mom’s big retirement party surprise
I’m pretty glad that I’ve started taking more video this year. It’s not just because it’s making my tutorials better and keeping things interesting with more of a challenge (learning to both take photos AND record is still difficult for me; I usually remember to do one or the other!). But I’ve realized that we’ve been missing home movies. So there will be more small clips like this, including videos of the dogs on the next pupdate (right after the party, I did a really informal house tour of the lower floor to share as well in the next post; it’s not pristine, but it’s real life). Keep in mind that this is very much a home movie and not something where I put a lot of production energy into it, but I hope you enjoy. Mom’s reaction is priceless. ❤️
The whole thing was so fun! And I can’t even begin to tell you: this was the kind of stuff I’ve always wanted to do in my home. This is one of those times when I get warm fuzzies at how worth it the effort I’ve put into this house really is. Even though I still have more I want to do, it feels like a huge accomplishment to be able to stop and enjoy it every now and then. And to share it.
It’s been several years since my aunt and uncle have seen the house, so it was fun to show off all the things that have changed since they were last here. As usual, my uncle helped with a new project — only this time, it was in Em’s house and not mine. More on that, plus the plans for the DIY light poles with hanging lights, are coming your way very soon!
Want even more pics because I couldn’t decide on which I liked most? Here ya go. 😉 Do me a favor and pin your favorites so that others can discover this post!